How to Embrace Your Perfect Imperfection

“Susan Ann! I can hear you over all the other girls. You’re so loud out there!”

I’m quoting my mom verbatim.

As a kid, I was loud. Very loud. I thought this worked for me when I was ten and cheering for the peewee football team, but after every game my mom would tell me how she could hear me over all the other girls on the squad and it was clear she didn’t think it was a good thing. She also didn’t appreciate how comfortable I was being one of the centers of attention. (While some of the other girls got nervous in front of the stands, I was like “Out of my way! It’s time for my cheer!”)

I hated disappointing my mom.

I really felt guilty about it.

But it didn’t make me change my behavior.

Loud, stubborn, and happy in the spotlight. Can you say totally flawed by the fourth grade?

Or was I?

Flash-forward to adulthood and my stubbornness, comfort in front of crowds, and ability to make myself heard with or without a mic, has enabled me to pursue careers in sales, marketing, and public speaking. And to be successful at them.

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